Got this from a Ruth's blog:
What will you do if you face a situation where you love 2 people. Person A loves you madly but person B likes you (not sure madly) and you love person B madly but guilty of leaving person A?
A couple of other things came to mind:
Do you think it's alright if in a relationship A loves B more than B loves A? Should B feel guilty for not loving A equally? Are we able to define how much is equal love?
Comments anyone?
4 comments:
wow. i don't know what to say. i guess it's not fair to lead A on?
and in every relationship it's possible that one loves more than the other.. and the person that loves the least controls it. sad i guess but that reality.
What will you do if you face a situation where you love 2 people. Person A loves you madly but person B likes you (not sure madly) and you love person B madly but guilty of leaving person A?
Answer:if you love someone, you follow your feelings stronger than pity, if you are with someone could of guilt, you will be very miserable and there wont be any happiness. in the end you will leave A one day. so just be frank and make the correct decision. friends last longer than lovers.
A couple of other things came to mind:
Do you think it's alright if in a relationship A loves B more than B loves A? Should B feel guilty for not loving A equally? Are we able to define how much is equal love?
Answer: there always tend to be one loving the other more, there is no balance in a relationship, having throu past experiences, those who love more would want the other party to have the best in everyting, the giver is not really a receiver.
B should just what B is and not being in a relationship to pleased the other party.
yeah i guess both of u are right. but sometimes it's really tough deciding what's the "right" thing to do eh? apparently love ain't s simple as i thought it was. i have a friend who keeps meeting her ex thinking she's over him..but each time she meets him, it still hurts like hell. sigh.
love is never fairytale. to forget someone is not easy,you need to be really badly shaken to know that you are foolish to once loved someone who doesnt treasure what you have done, to me as long as you know that you have done your very best in the relationship,if they are not happy there is nothing we can do. humans are hard to please for sure. there will always be someone better in way or other. =)
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